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Spoiled

"Don't spoil your child!" A phrase many parents have heard. By definition, spoiling your child means indulging their wants, bending rules as they see fit, and breaking down all boundaries to fit their preferences. Thus, there are times when people mislable providing as an act of spoiling one's child. 

People get so hung up to how they were raise and end up labeling things they were't provided as a child as a luxury and shouldn't be given to children of the present. It is unfortunate thhat children aren't always provided withtheor needs and at times this results to adults not being able to heal their inner child. This leads to a cycle of retribution for the past. As a parent, this is a cycle we must break. Despite anyone's opinion, parents sole focus must be on their child's needs and that these needs are provided without overcompensating. 

If you can provided then why not. If you cannot orovide it then that's that. Look for an alternative or work harder. And these things shouldn't be viewed as spoiling a child. 

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