1My child can never be someone else's so as I am no parent to someone else's child. So simple yet easily forgotten that results to unsolicited advices and judgement. We forget that every child, even every parent, is different. We cannot expect others to be brought up the way we were or parent the way we do. Parenting do need guidance, but in the end, parents need to work it out on their own. Parents grow and learn as their children do. There is no manual in being a parent nor being a child. We could only hope that parents thrieve along with their children in the right direction.